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Chapter 7. Marriage: The Test of Time > Why Do I Always Have To Be the One to C...

Why Do I Always Have To Be the One to Change?

Have you ever felt that way? As if you're the only one who's noticing the problems and willing to do something about it? You feel as if all your talking, prodding, and pleading is falling on deaf ears. The notion that you should have to do yet one more thing to turn this marriage around is too much to contemplate.

The truth is that you shouldn't always have to be the one to change. It doesn't seem fair, but maybe you should be the one to initiate change. The reason is simple. You do it for yourself. You deserve to be happy and more fulfilled. If that means you taking charge of the situation—so be it. One thing's for sure, if you continue to wait, it's likely that nothing is going to change. You'll continue to feel as if you are stuck in the mud. Ask yourself these questions:


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